Supervision for Sexuality Professionals

Who Am I?

I'm Paul. I've been supervising coaches, bodyworkers and other professionals for over 10 years. I'm certified in Sexological Bodywork, Clean Language and also trained in Somatic Trauma Therapy and The Wheel of Consent. I'm a certified Clean Language Trainer and Assessor. I am recommended as a supervisor by the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers.

I'm part of the training faculty for The School of Somatic Sexology. I also train coaches, therapists and sexological bodyworkers in Clean Language and Embodiment as part of the Clean Change Community, which I founded.

And what I love about supervision, is seeing you flourish and grow and making the difference you want to make to your clients and to the world.

What is Supervision?

Supervision is a dedicated time for in-depth reflection, in a confidential and collaborative working relationship. It’s a space to explore your practice and the whole of what arises in it: how you work, what you notice in your body, the emotions and relational dynamics that move through you and your clients, and the challenges you meet along the way. The aim is to support your competency, confidence and creativity so you can be of most service to your clients.

Supervision is not a ‘policing’ role. It’s a supportive, caring professional relationship between peers.

Many sexuality professionals work across more than one modality: psychotherapy, breathwork, bodywork, coaching, energy work, or your own developed approach. Supervision is a place to explore how these fit together, where the edges are, and how to hold the whole of what you offer with integrity.

How I work

Supervision with me is a partnership, rooted in curiosity and exploration. I’ll bring reflective questions that help you find your own answers, alongside practical experience, references and perspectives when they serve. Each session starts with us checking in on what you’d like.

If your practice has a spiritual or energetic dimension, it’s welcome here. My own path includes Yoga and classical Tantra.

What's the cost?

My default is to charge the same as you do. We take your usual session price and use the same hourly rate for our supervision sessions. This means I can meet you where you are: whether you have a successful practice with well-paying clients, or you work with disadvantaged clients, or you are just starting your business. I hope this is a fair approach, and I'm open to other agreements about pricing sessions.

What can happen in supervision?

Self & Skills

Professional development
Explore where you want to grow, deepen, or extend your practice, including specific skills you'd like to develop and how the modalities you use fit together.

Practice with feedback
Practice with me in a safe space and get in-the-moment feedback and a chance to reflect.

Personal triggers and self-care
Explore what gets stirred in you in session, ways to stay grounded and present, and how to look after your emotional wellbeing.

Clients & Sessions

Learn from successes
Discuss specific cases that have worked well. Become aware of your hidden skills and use them more.

Client dynamics
Explore the relational field: communication, consent, power dynamics, and what it takes to hold a safe, supportive space.

Professional challenges and boundaries
Work through complex situations: moments when things feel stuck, when you're navigating difficult material, or when boundaries and expectations need attention.

Meaning & Purpose

Making a difference
Explore who you are as a practitioner, the difference you want to make, and any inner edges around stepping into that. Find the threads between your clients, your work, and what matters most to you.

Business
Consider how you bring your work to clients, how to find clients, and how to create a business that balances finances, your purpose and your skills.

Contact me

Phone

Just give me a call on 07961 391 468. This is good for a quicker chat about what you'd like, or to book a session.

WhatsApp

You can chat to me on WhatsApp. This is great for asking a few questions or booking a session.

Email

Send me a message using my web form and I will answer your questions by email.