Authentic Tantric Massage Sessions for Women in London

Tantric massage is a full-body, sensual massage that awakens your body, heals trauma, and connects your heart and your sexuality.

You become aware of your creative, erotic energy and how to manifest that orgasmic potential in your life.

I offer Tantric Massage in London, and sessions can be tailored to suit your needs. You can find out more in these articles:

When you’re ready, simply schedule a free, friendly chat to talk to me on zoom and find out what’s possible. No pressure, no obligation. I’d love to meet you.

“The most touching element of the healing process for me: to be able to have the trust to simply surrender to another person’s touch and know that the only intention they have is to help you heal, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Paul is incredibly sensitive, patient and loving”


“I felt this amazing warm glow expand from my pelvis and filled my entire body. It was the most pleasurable and beautiful feeling I had ever experienced and it seem to last for hours. For days afterwards everything in the world looked more beautiful, and I felt so much more alive”


I'm Paul and I help women reconnect to their body and sexuality, particularly after sexual or emotional trauma or difficult relationships with men. I hold a safe, loving space for you to rediscover your  body, desires and sexuality, entirely at your own pace, using coaching, embodiment and bodywork practices.

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What do tantric massage sessions cost?

Our first friendly chat is free.

Sessions cost £100/hour. However this work is a calling for me and I don’t want it to be out-of-reach of those who need it, so I offer some “pay what you can afford” places. If you’d like that option, just start with our friendly chat and we’ll find something that works for you.

How long are tantric massage sessions?

Tantric massage sessions are a minimum of 90mins (I recommend at least 2 hours ideally) and can be 3 or 4 hours if you’d like to go really deep into the experience.

Whereabouts can we do sessions?

I usually work from a space in North London. I can also potentially travel to you if you are in or near London. For people further afield we've made arrangements such as longer sessions, or sessions on consecutive days, while they visit friends.

What else do I need to know about tantric massage sessions?

You are always in control of the experience and you don’t have to have a tantric massage in the first session. We can work towards it with consent and conscious touch exercises first. These let you build confidence in me and the experience, while exploring your boundaries, your pleasure and what blocks you. Particularly when healing from trauma, it’s important that you heal at your own pace, connected to the needs of your body and listening to any resistance.

You can find out more by reading my article Tantric Massage – Awakening the Goddess.

Whenever you’re ready, book a free, friendly chat with me and we can get to know each other and whether this therapy is a good fit for you.

“I suddenly woke up to the fact I was in my 60s, spent my life looking after everyone else and I’d never enjoyed sex. I was incredibly nervous reaching out to Paul, but he made me feel safe and completely in control. After a couple of sessions, I felt like an excited teenager again, and my body felt so alive.”


“I’d started with a severe distrust of men, and it took a few sessions for me to feel ok to go beyond a little touch for a minute or two. But it always felt like the experience was completely for me. Even when I started getting aroused, there was never any agenda from Paul. I could just be aroused and learn to enjoy it. And that’s what finally meant I could relax and begin to trust again.”

— Patricia

It’s normal to be nervous taking the first step…

I know it can be a big step to make contact. Some of my clients waited weeks or even months to reach out to me. It’s completely normal to feel unsure or nervous. My role is to make the process as easy and comfortable for you as possible.

Our first step is simply a friendly chat on zoom. It’s a chance to ask whatever you like about what’s possible, what happens in sessions and about me personally. It’s free, and, after that, it’s completely your choice if you’d like to try a session. You can take as long as you like to decide, there’s no pressure. And no need to commit to multiple sessions. We take it one step at a time, you can come into the work as slowly and gently as you need to, and you can just “dip your toe in the water” to start with, if that’s what you’d like.

If you’re interested to know more, just use the button to go to my booking system and schedule in an hour to talk.

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