Authentic Tantric Massage Sessions for Women in London

Tantric massage is a full-body, sensual massage that awakens your body, heals trauma, and connects your heart and your sexuality.

It’s a chance to feel adored, honoured and loved. To receive touch that’s entirely for you, without any agenda. An opportunity to discover your beauty and inner power.

I offer Tantric Massage in London, and sessions can be tailored to suit your needs. You can find out more in these articles:

When you’re ready, you can contact me. You can ask questions, or book a free, friendly chat to talk to me and find out what’s possible. No pressure, no obligation. I’d love to meet you.

“The most touching element of the healing process for me: to be able to have the trust to simply surrender to another person’s touch and know that the only intention they have is to help you heal, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Paul is incredibly sensitive, patient and loving”


“I felt this amazing warm glow expand from my pelvis and filled my entire body. It was the most pleasurable and beautiful feeling I had ever experienced and it seem to last for hours. For days afterwards everything in the world looked more beautiful, and I felt so much more alive”


“I am so grateful for the experience. It felt like such a gift and I felt so honoured and revered as a goddess. Paul really held the masculine energy with clear intention and brought true purity of intention and energy to his work.

I also want to share that I continue to feel increased sensitivity in my yoni post-session!”


I'm Paul and I help women reconnect to their body and sexuality, particularly after sexual or emotional trauma or difficult relationships with men. I hold a safe, loving space for you to rediscover your  body, desires and sexuality, entirely at your own pace, using coaching, embodiment and bodywork practices.

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I work with a variety of clients. Whether you're in your 20s or your 70s, whatever your body size or shape, whether you're neurotypical or neurodiverse (particularly Autism or ADHD), whether you're comfortable with or ashamed of your body, and whatever your history, you can heal and rediscover your body, your beauty and your pleasure.

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What happens in a tantric massage?

A full tantric massage can be a big step for most people. I offer three kinds of tantric touch experiences, which allows you to choose a level of experience that feels right for you and build towards the full experience.

Conscious touch

This is a great introduction to tantric massage, where we stay fully clothed and explore what kind of touch you most enjoy. We keep talking throughout. You say where you would like to be touched and we can explore a whole world of touch: slow or fast, gentle or firm, long or circling or still, vibration, tapping, to name a few. You can also explore being held or cuddling. We continually notice which touch gives you what you want, which might be pleasure or it might be a sense of being nurtured or looked after. We can also explore tantric principles such as presence and the cultivation and movement of energy.

Conscious sensual massage

This is a massage with oil, with a focus on discovering the touch you most enjoy. That could be exploring which touch is most pleasurable, or it could be what makes you most relaxed, or feeling cared for. You can remove as many or as few clothes as you like. We stay talking throughout and you guide where you would like touch. You can include intimate touch if you choose to. We explore the same world of possibilities as in conscious touch: experimenting with pressure, speed and type of touch so you can discover what your body enjoys most. And we can more deeply explore tantric principles such as presence and the cultivation and movement of energy.

Tantric Massage

This is a full body sensual massage with oil, where you relax into the experience of loving touch. The touch is generally long and slow, allowing you to be fully present to the sensations. Every part of your body receives this slow conscious touch, allowing you to relax and enjoy your body in places you didn’t realise could be relaxed and pleasurable. My aim is to be completely loving and adoring, so you feel deeply cared for and feel what an amazing and beautiful woman you are.

You can choose to exclude some parts of your body from the massage, and you can also choose to include more intimate touch, including Yoni massage which opens the possibilities of deeper experiences.

What do tantric massage sessions cost?

Our first friendly chat is free.

Sessions cost £120/hour. However this work is a calling for me and I don’t want it to be out-of-reach of those who need it, so I offer some “pay what you can afford” places. So if finances are tight for you, but you know it's important for you to do this work, then just contact me and we’ll find an affordable option for you.

How long are tantric massage sessions?

Conscious touch and conscious sensual massage sessions are usually 90 minutes to 2 hours. Tantric massage sessions are a minimum of 2 hours and can be 3 or 4 hours if you’d like to go really deep into the experience, or include a yoni massage.

Whereabouts can we do sessions?

I work from my home in North London: Barnet (N11).

I can also potentially travel to you. If you are near me in London, I won't charge any extra. For other locations, I sometimes travel but I will need to charge for my travel time and any expenses. If you are travelling from further afield, we can make arrangements, such as longer sessions, or sessions on consecutive days, to make it worthwhile for you.

I often work with clients who are visiting from other countries, particularly from America and India, and I'm happy to travel to hotels in central London for longer sessions (3+ hours), and this will have a travel charge, which is usually an extra hour of my time.

What are your ethics and boundaries?

As a certified professional I work with a code of ethics to ensure your safety and wellbeing, confidentiality, and to ensure I work in a professional way. I also stick to certain boundaries that make it clear what is possible and not possible in sessions. You can find the details on my Ethics and Boundaries page.

What else do I need to know about tantric massage sessions?

You are always in control of the experience and you don’t have to have a tantric massage in the first session. We can work towards it with consent and conscious touch exercises first. These let you build confidence in me and the experience, while exploring your boundaries, your pleasure and what blocks you. Particularly when healing from trauma, it’s important that you heal at your own pace, connected to the needs of your body and listening to any resistance.

You can find out more by reading my articles

Whenever you’re ready, you can contact me. You can ask questions, or book a free, friendly chat to talk to me and find out what’s possible. No pressure, no obligation. I’d love to meet you.

“I suddenly woke up to the fact I was in my 60s, spent my life looking after everyone else and I’d never enjoyed sex. I was incredibly nervous reaching out to Paul, but he made me feel safe and completely in control. After a couple of sessions, I felt like an excited teenager again, and my body felt so alive.”


“I’d started with a severe distrust of men, and it took a few sessions for me to feel ok to go beyond a little touch for a minute or two. But it always felt like the experience was completely for me. Even when I started getting aroused, there was never any agenda from Paul. I could just be aroused and learn to enjoy it. And that’s what finally meant I could relax and begin to trust again.”

— Patricia

It's normal to be nervous taking the first step...

I know it can be a big step to make contact. Some of my clients waited weeks or even months to reach out to me. It's completely normal to feel unsure or nervous. My role is to make the process as easy and comfortable for you as possible.

You can choose to contact me by email, phone, WhatsApp or a zoom call - whatever feels most comfortable for you. It's a chance to ask whatever you like about what's possible, what happens in sessions and about me personally. There's no obligation and I really am very friendly.

A friendly chat on Zoom

Book a free, friendly chat on Zoom. I'll set aside an hour for us to talk about what you'd like and what kind of session might work for you.


Just give me a call on 07961 391 468. This is good for a quicker chat about what you'd like, or to book a session.


You can chat to me on WhatsApp. This is great for asking a few questions or booking a session.


Send me a message using my web form and I will answer your questions by email.

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