Sexological Bodywork Sessions for Women in London and Online
Sexological Bodywork is a professional, structured way to solve sexual problems and explore new body experiences. It’s a form of somatic sex therapy that can range from talking-only to hands-on bodywork. You choose what happens and are completely in control at all times.
I offer Sexological Bodywork sessions in London and online. You can find out more in these articles:
When you’re ready, simply book a free friendly chat to talk to me on zoom and find out what’s possible. No pressure, no obligation. I’d love to meet you.
“I had severe trust issues with men due to previous trauma but the sessions I received from Paul were so loving and nurturing. He made me feel cherished, seen, attractive but, most importantly of all, safe. I now feel ready to embark on a new relationship after keeping myself closed down for so many years”
“Paul helped me reclaim myself and my spirit. I got in touch with my frozen holding and trauma in my body and how I was afraid of opening up to my pleasure and to myself. I now feel entirely different. I admire and love my body. I love the shape of my breasts. I wear more sensual clothes. It has been a miracle.”
I'm Paul and I help women reconnect to their body and sexuality, particularly after sexual or emotional trauma or difficult relationships with men. I hold a safe, loving space for you to rediscover your body, desires and sexuality, entirely at your own pace, using coaching, embodiment and bodywork practices.
What do sexological bodywork sessions cost?
Our first friendly chat is free.
Sessions cost £80/hour for online sessions (or equivalent in other currencies for my non-UK clients), and £100/hour for in-person sessions. However this work is a calling for me and I don’t want it to be out-of-reach of those who need it, so I offer some “pay what you can afford” places. If you’d like that option, just start with our friendly chat and we’ll find something that works for you.
How long are sexological bodywork sessions?
Sexological bodywork sessions are usually 90mins to 2 hours. However, online session can sometimes be shorter (60 mins). Longer sessions are possible for deeper work. We can work out what’s right for you when we talk.
Whereabouts can we do sessions?
We can do sessions online. For in-person sessions, I usually work from a space in North London. I can also potentially travel to you if you are in or near London. For people further afield we've made arrangements such as longer sessions, or sessions on consecutive days, while they visit friends.
What else do I need to know about sexological bodywork sessions?
You are always in control of the experience and choose exactly what you would like to happen. Often we’ll start with consent and conscious touch exercises. But if they feel too much, we can start with a talking exploration or simple exercises to help you notice what your body would like.
This structured approach with you in control, lets you build confidence in me and the experience, while exploring your boundaries, your pleasure and what blocks you. Particularly when healing from trauma, it’s important that you heal at your own pace, connected to the needs of your body and listening to any resistance.
You can find out more by reading my article What is Sexological Bodywork?
Whenever you’re ready, book a free, friendly chat with me and we can get to know each other and whether this therapy is a good fit for you.
“I suddenly woke up to the fact I was in my 60s, spent my life looking after everyone else and I’d never enjoyed sex. I was incredibly nervous reaching out to Paul, but he made me feel safe and completely in control. After a couple of sessions, I felt like an excited teenager again, and my body felt so alive.”
“Paul holds an amazing space of unconditional love and acceptance which I had never experienced before with a man. Doing exercises that enabled me to practice boundaries and consent, I started setting boundaries in my own life and saying no to things I didn’t want including saying no to sex. In that space, I was able to explore my own femininity, start to feel like a sexual woman again and accept that I did deserve love.”
It’s normal to be nervous taking the first step…
I know it can be a big step to make contact. Some of my clients waited weeks or even months to reach out to me. It’s completely normal to feel unsure or nervous. My role is to make the process as easy and comfortable for you as possible.
Our first step is simply a friendly chat on zoom. It’s a chance to ask whatever you like about what’s possible, what happens in sessions and about me personally. It’s free, and, after that, it’s completely your choice if you’d like to try a session. You can take as long as you like to decide, there’s no pressure. And no need to commit to multiple sessions. We take it one step at a time, you can come into the work as slowly and gently as you need to, and you can just “dip your toe in the water” to start with, if that’s what you’d like.
If you’re interested to know more, just use the button to go to my booking system and schedule in an hour to talk.