Healing Yoni Massage Sessions for Women in London

A yoni massage is a type of conscious touch for the vulva and vagina. It can heal emotional and traumatic pain and numbness.

And a yoni massage allows you to discover and awaken your unique ways of experiencing pleasure. It’s a wonderful way to learn to enjoy your body, and explore your desires and expression as a woman.

It’s a chance to experience loving touch that’s entirely for you, with no agenda. And where you have complete control of the experience, setting the pace and boundaries that feel right for you.

By choosing to work with a compassionate and skilled practitioner, you can embark on a journey of healing past traumas and cultivating self-confidence, knowledge and experience for your future relationships.

I’m  a certified professional, and I offer healing yoni massage therapy in London.

There are several kinds of massage, which can be tailored to suit your needs. In particular, a Yoni Massage is often part of a Tantric Massage, which is a full-body experience of love, adoration and awakening of your feminine power.

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When you’re ready, you can contact me. You can ask questions, or book a free, friendly chat to talk to me and find out what’s possible. No pressure, no obligation. I’d love to meet you.

“The most touching element of the healing process for me: to be able to have the trust to simply surrender to another person’s touch and know that the only intention they have is to help you heal, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Paul is incredibly sensitive, patient and loving”


“I felt this amazing warm glow expand from my pelvis and filled my entire body. It was the most pleasurable and beautiful feeling I had ever experienced and it seem to last for hours. For days afterwards everything in the world looked more beautiful, and I felt so much more alive”


“I am so grateful for the experience. It felt like such a gift and I felt so honoured and revered as a goddess. Paul really held the masculine energy with clear intention and brought true purity of intention and energy to his work.

I also want to share that I continue to feel increased sensitivity in my yoni post-session!”


I'm Paul and I help women reconnect to their body and sexuality, particularly after sexual or emotional trauma or difficult relationships with men. I hold a safe, loving space for you to rediscover your  body, desires and sexuality, entirely at your own pace, using coaching, embodiment and bodywork practices.

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I work with a variety of clients. Whether you're in your 20s or your 70s, whatever your body size or shape, whether you're neurotypical or neurodiverse (particularly Autism or ADHD), whether you're comfortable with or ashamed of your body, and whatever your history, you can heal and rediscover your body, your beauty and your pleasure.

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What do yoni massage sessions cost?

Our first friendly chat is free.

Sessions cost £120/hour. However this work is a calling for me and I don’t want it to be out-of-reach of those who need it, so I offer some “pay what you can afford” places. So if finances are tight for you, but you know it's important for you to do this work, then just contact me and we’ll find an affordable option for you.

How long are yoni massage sessions?

Yoni massage sessions are usually a minimum of 2 hours. I recommend a longer first session so we can spend more time making sure you feel comfortable and safe. If you’d like a yoni massage as part of a full Tantric Massage, then sessions are a minimum of 2.5 hours.

Whereabouts can we do sessions?

I work from my home in North London: Barnet (N11).

I can also potentially travel to you. If you are near me in London, I won't charge any extra. For other locations, I sometimes travel but I will need to charge for my travel time and any expenses. If you are travelling from further afield, we can make arrangements, such as longer sessions, or sessions on consecutive days, to make it worthwhile for you.

I often work with clients who are visiting from other countries, particularly from America and India, and I'm happy to travel to hotels in central London for longer sessions (3+ hours), and this will have a travel charge, which is usually an extra hour of my time.

What are your ethics and boundaries?

As a certified professional I work with a code of ethics to ensure your safety and wellbeing, confidentiality, and to ensure I work in a professional way. I also stick to certain boundaries that make it clear what is possible and not possible in sessions. You can find the details on my Ethics and Boundaries page.

What else do I need to know about yoni massage sessions?

You are always in control of the experience and you don’t have to have a yoni massage in the first session. We can work towards it with consent and conscious touch exercises first. These let you build confidence in me and the experience, while exploring your boundaries, your pleasure and what blocks you. Particularly when healing from trauma, it’s important that you heal at your own pace, connected to the needs of your body and listening to any resistance.

You can find out more by reading my articles:

Whenever you’re ready, you can contact me. You can ask questions, or book a free, friendly chat to talk to me and find out what’s possible. No pressure, no obligation. I’d love to meet you.

“I so appreciated the space to explore and experience myself from an internal perspective – this is something I have not been able to do on my own, and it has been very valuable. Paul held the space beautifully over our ten sessions.”


“Paul is a true professional. Two factors, above other wonderful skills, means he is someone I would go back to again and recommend to others with no hesitation. One, is Paul’s ability to tailor the sessions to what is present in the moment and let it take its ramifications wherever it goes, discreetly facilitating the process so the path reveals itself to you. Second, is Paul’s incredible ability to safely hold the space: what sometimes feels difficult to hold, with Paul is possible.”


It's normal to be nervous taking the first step...

I know it can be a big step to make contact. Some of my clients waited weeks or even months to reach out to me. It's completely normal to feel unsure or nervous. My role is to make the process as easy and comfortable for you as possible.

You can choose to contact me by email, phone, WhatsApp or a zoom call - whatever feels most comfortable for you. It's a chance to ask whatever you like about what's possible, what happens in sessions and about me personally. There's no obligation and I really am very friendly.

A friendly chat on Zoom

Book a free, friendly chat on Zoom. I'll set aside an hour for us to talk about what you'd like and what kind of session might work for you.


Just give me a call on 07961 391 468. This is good for a quicker chat about what you'd like, or to book a session.


You can chat to me on WhatsApp. This is great for asking a few questions or booking a session.


Send me a message using my web form and I will answer your questions by email.

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